The bigger the Why the easier the HOW!

The bigger the Why the easier the HOW!

 

 

Hindi ka ba nagtataka bakit hindi natin maachieve ang mga gusto nating maachieve sa buhay?

Bakit ang common sense ay hindi nagiging common practice?

The number 1 reason why most people don’t get what they want is because we don’t know what we really want.

And the number 2 reason why we don’t get what we want is because we don’t know WHY we want it.

Kadalasan, ang kulang sa atin ay enough reasons para iback up ang ating mga goals at dreams kaya ang tendency, tyo ay nagpoprocastinate. Pinagpapaliban kung anuman ang nararapat na gawin.

Once we have enough reasons & emotional WHYs, the HOWs will follow.

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Ralf Roger Tagao
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Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

Don’t miss out on God’s best

Don’t miss out on God’s Best!!!

 

The reality is, there is no shortage of blessings and abundance but on our part, is a shortage of preparedness and readiness to receive God’s blessings and abundance!

 

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Ralf Roger C. Tagao

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Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

Focus on the being and becoming rather than the getting and having

Focus on the being and becoming rather than the getting and having

Habang binabasa ko ang 43rd book ko this year, I stumbled upon sa isang napakaimportanteng phrase dun sa binabasa ko. It says, for success, “Focus on your being and becoming rather than the getting and having”. Give attention more sa iyong personal growth, your mindset and skill set. The money, sales, commission, profit (getting and having) are just the results of You. Continuously learn and invest more on your self development. I hope you will learn something sa video na ito.

Regards,

Ralf Roger C. Tagao

CPA Licensed Real Estate Broker Entrepreneur

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

Ano ba ang emotional bank account?

Ano ba ang emotional bank account?

 

Ano ba ang Emotional Bank Account at paano ito makakatulong sa pag-improve ng aking relationship sa aking asawa, anak, kapatid, magulang, kamag-anak or kaibigan? Dito sa video na ito, aking diniscuss ang concept ng emotional bank account. isang napakapowerful concept upang mapalago ang relationship sa pamilya at sa ibang tao.

 

 

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Ralf Roger C. Tagao

CPA Licensed Real Estate Broker Entrepreneur

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

The Universe Is an Eat All You Can Buffet Table

The Universe Is an Eat All You Can Buffet Table

“You do not have, because you do not ask” – James 4:2

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I’ve come across with this eat-all-you-can buffet analogy from one of the books of Bro. Bo Sanchez, a preacher, leader and entrepreneur in the Philippines who authored more than 40 bestselling books.

We all know that in an Eat All You Can restaurant, we can eat all the food and drinks served on that buffet table. All we need to do is to get and grab the food and drinks that we want.

But let us assume that you’re not aware about Eat All You Can, and one of your friends invited you and pay for you without knowing that you can eat all the food in the buffet.

You just came from the far away barrio and you are not sure about what to do in the restaurant.

You just waited inside and when you felt hungry, you ask the waiter, when will they give me food?

The waiter replied, “Sir, this is an Eat All You Can Buffet and customers go to the table and get what they want.” You are shocked since this is the first time you’ve ever been into this place. You ask the waiter, I can just get what I want? The waiter smiles, “Yes Sir”.

You stands up and walks toward the buffet. You ask the waiter again, Can I get this food? Can I grab this dessert? and drink this juice? The waiter replied, “Sir, you don’t have to ask my permission to get anything. Just go ahead and get it. All the food on the table is potentially yours. All you have to do is grab it.”

My friend, everything we need is here, available to us on God’s buffet table of blessings.

Every Blessing on the Table is Potentially Yours

All the wisdom you need.

All the friends you need.

All the joy and happiness and fulfillment you need.

All the money you need.

All the resources you need.

All the healing you need.

All the opportunities for growth.

Every blessing in the universe is potentially yours. Our problem is that we’re sitting with our empty plates, still waiting for the blessing. We need to stand up and grab the blessing.

Stand Up and Grab the Blessing

~ Don’t wait for the perfect job to land on your lap. Create the perfect job. Discover your gift. Develop your skill. Hone your craft. Hone your craft. Make yourself valuable. Make mistakes. Double your rate of failure so that you can double your rate of success. Grab the blessing.

~ Don’t wait for money to come. Create ways on how the money will flow into your hands. Learn how to sell. Learn how to manage your finances. Read books about personal finance. Attend seminars on money management

~ Don’t wait for health to just happen to you. Exercise daily. Eat nutritious food. Have enough sleep. Get enough sunlight in the morning etc…

Grab the blessings my friend. It is just available to us…

 

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

The Importance of Lifelong Learning

The Importance of Lifelong Learning

 

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Knowledge is the primary source of value in our world today. Our ability to expand our mind by constantly seeking of a lifelong learning is the key to personal success.

By dedicating ourselves to continuous learning, we can get ahead in every aspect of our life. All it takes is our commitment.

In my journey to life of Abundance, I’ve learned from various people the value of continuous learning. When you searched Lifelong learning, it is defined as “all learning activity undertaken throughout life, with the aim of improving knowledge, skills and competences within a personal, civic, social and/or employment-related perspective”.

Continuous learning gives us an edge to achieve our aims in life. It gives us a right perspective on various areas of our life that are necessary to our success.

So how can we really improve ourselves? Our skills and knowledge?

 

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There are a lot of ways on how to continuously improved ourselves. You might know some of these already and I would like to share some of the things that I follow personally in my pursuit to personal excellence and continuous learning.

  • Attend Seminars or Trainings – In our generation now, there are a lot of companies/organizations that offers trainings and seminars on specific topics that will suit to your training needs. If you want to improve your health, there are seminars about health. If you want to improve your finances, there are a lot of seminars about money management. If you want self development, there are seminars on motivation and personal development. The thing is, everything that you want to improve on, there are specifics trainings/seminars available to you, of course for a fee.
  • Free videos on seminars/trainings via social media – Nowadays, information is just on a tip of our fingers seconds away from searching online. There are various social media platforms like facebook or youtube wherein we can watch from a guru/coach/consultant/entrepreneur, videos about health, wealth, self development, real estate, sales, marketing etc.. that can really make an impact on ourselves by learning from those who are already successful. We should take advantage of this advancement in technology and gets the necessary information needed to develop ourselves. But be cautious on what social media brings, for our attention might divert to topics that will distract our attention. Despite the free access of information nowadays, majority of people are stuck to entertainment and games.
  • Read Books Continuously and Consistently – You can get ahead in life if you continuously feed your mind with healthy thoughts and this can be achieved through reading. You can read books on various areas that you think you need to improve on. If you want to improve your finances, there are thousand of books out there that you can read on. If you want topics about health, there are a lot of books out there on how to improve your health. Every topic that you want, are available at your nearest bookstore. The great thing about reading is that you connect well with the author especially if the author walk the talk. If the author writes based on his experience, especially his successes, then its like, you are learning from his experience, getting the tips from him.  For the past two (2) years, I committed to read at least four (4) books a month that constantly feeds my mind.
  • Learn from a Mentor – The best way to learn is from a person that is already living the dream that we wanted to be. You can call him a Coach, a Leader, a Mentor, Teacher or a Guru. In my opinion, you can have a mentor either online or offline. What do I mean by that? When I say online, you can have a mentor via social media like youtube. There are a lot of youtube channels out there by the most respective motivational/leadership guru that are sharing their views and insights on health, relationship, finances, self development etc. I personally subscribed for free to youtube channels about leadership, entrepreneurship, motivational, health, real estate etc.. When I say offline, you can have a mentor from the people you personally know.  Maybe you have relatives that you admire the most and you can request him/her to be an apprentice.

 

As I read one of the books of Brian Tracy titled “Goals” I’ve come across with these twelve step program to personal excellence that we can apply and work on it continually until we have achieved our goal.

1.) Have a desire: In what one skill area would you life to be absolutely excellent?

2.) Believe: What action steps in personal development could you take right now to increase your belief and confidence that you can master the new skill?

3.) Write it down: Write down a clear, present tense statement describing yourself as you would look, feel, and behave as a result of mastering this key skill.

4.) Analyze your starting point: What are your areas of strength and weakness in this area currently?

5.) Determine why you want to excel in this area: Make a list of five positive things that would be different in your life as the result of becoming excellent in a particular skill.

6.) Set a deadline: Determine exactly when you will be excellent in this skill area, and set sub-deadlines for the steps you will take each day, week, and month.

7.) Identify the obstacles: Determine the obstacles that stand between you and the achievement of excellence, especially the obstacles within yourself.

8.) Determine the additional knowledge and skill you need: Identify the specific resources you will require, including books, audio programs, seminars, and the study schedule you will need to follow to master this new skill.

9.) Determine the people you’ll need: Whose help and cooperation will you require to master this skill?

10.) Make a plan: Create a list of everything that you can think of that you need to do to achieve excellence in this area.

11.) Visualize: See yourself in your mind’s eye, your “inner mirror”, as if you were already a recognized expert in this new area.  Repeat this exercise over and over until the image is accepted by your subconscious mind as a command.

12.) Never give up: Once you have decided to develop this key skill, make a decision that you will never give up until you are recognized by others as very good in this area.

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Just remember that Excellence is a Journey.  There is an old saying: “Anything worth doing well is worth doing poorly at first.”

It is not practice that makes perfect; it is imperfect practice that eventually makes perfect.

Whenever we start something new, we can expect to do it poorly. We will feel clumsy and awkward at first. We will feel inadequate and inferior. We will often feel silly and embarrassed. But this is the price that we need to pay to achieve excellence on our chosen field. We will always have to pay the price of success, and that price often involves hard work of mastering a difficult skill that we need to move to the top of our field.

 

Practice, Practice, Practice

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The more you practice what you are learning, the faster you will become competent and skilled in that area.  The more you practice, the more confidence you will develop, the more rapidly you will overcome your feelings of inadequacy in that skill, and the faster you will master it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

How To Get People To Like You

How To Get People To Like You

(credit to the book “The Power of Positive Thinking” by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale)

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We might as well admit it, we want people to like us.  You may hear someone say, “I don’t care whether people like me or not.” But whenever you hear anyone say that, just put it down as a fact that he is not really telling the truth.

The psychologist William James said, “One of the deepest drives of human nature is the desire to be appreciated.”  The longing to be liked, to be held in esteem, to be a sought-after person, is fundamental in us.

The basic principles of getting people to like you need no prolonged and labored emphasis, for they are very simple and easily illustrate their own truth.  The soundness of these principles has been demonstrated innumerable times.  Practice them until you become expert at them and people will like you.

Here are the ten (10) practical rules for getting the esteem of others.

1.) Learn to remember names. Inefficiency at this point may indicate that your interest is not sufficiently outgoing.  A man’s name is very important to him.

2.) Be a comfortable person so there is no strain in being with you – be an old-shoe, old-hat kind of individual. Be homey.

3.) Acquire the quality of relaxed easygoingness so that things do not ruffle you.

4.) Don’t be egotistical.  Guard against giving the impression that you know it all.  Be natural and normally humble.

5.) Cultivate the quality of being interesting so that people will want to be with you and get something of stimulating value from their association with you.

6.) Study to get the “scratchy” elements out of your personality, even those of which you may be unconscious.

7.) Sincerely attempt to heal, on an honest Christian basis, every misunderstanding you have had or now have. Drain off your grievances.

8.) Practice liking people until you learn to so genuinely.  Remember what Will Rogers said, “I never met a man I didn’t like.” Try to be that way.

9.) Never miss an opportunity to say a word of congratulation upon anyone’s achievement, or express sympathy in sorrow or disappointment.

10.) Get a deep spiritual experience so that you have something to give people that will help them to be stronger and meet life more effectively. Give strength to people and they will give affection to you.

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

10 Simple Ways To Solve Personal Problems

10 Simple Ways To Solve Personal Problems

(credit to “The Power of Positive Thinking” by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale)

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All of us experienced problems in our life, and we face those problems differently.  Majority of us see the problems bigger than ourselves causing us stress, worries and pains. We dwell more often on the problems, and sometimes we forget that the answers are just in the grasp of our minds.  As they say, “The size of the problems determines by the size of You”, it’s true. Sometimes, what you think is a problem, is not really a problem to other people. It’s just the size of You that determines whether it is a problem or not.

Nonetheless, I would like to share with you here, the ten (10) Simple Suggestions in solving your personal problems.

1.) Believe that for every problem there is a solution. This belief will make you think more of the solutions to your problems because you know for a fact that it can be solved.

2.) Keep calm.  Tension blocks the flow of thought power.  Your brain cannot operate efficiently under stress.  Go at your problem easylike. When you are at peace, you can think clearly of the solutions to your problems. Your mind thinks at its best when you are in serenity and peaceful.

3.) Don’t try to force an answer. Keep your mind relaxed so that the solution will open up and become clear.  Put everything in God’s hands.

4.) Assemble all the facts impartially, impersonally, and judicially.

5.) List these facts on paper.  This clarifies your thinking, bringing the various elements into orderly system.  You see as well as think.  The problem becomes objective, not subjective.

6.) Pray about your problem, affirming that God will flash illumination into your mind. Deep Prayer will provide you Divine guidance on solving your problems. Prayer is very powerful as a means of talking freely to God.

7.) Believe in and seek God’s guidance on the promise of the 73rd Psalm, “Thou shalt guide me by thy counsel.”

8.) Trust the faculty of insight and intuition.

9.) Go to church and let your subconscious work on the problem as you attune to the mood of worship.  Creative spiritual thinking has amazing power to give “right” answers.

10.) If you follow these steps faithfully, then the answer that develops in your mind, or comes to pass, is the right answer to your problem.

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

7 Practical Steps for Changing your Mental Attitudes from Negative to Positive Thoughts

7 Practical Steps for Changing your Mental Attitudes from Negative to Positive Thoughts

(excerpt from the book “The Power of Positive Thinking” by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale)

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“The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.” – William James

As you think, so shall you be.  So flush out all old, tire, worn-out thoughts.  Fill your mind with fresh, new creative thoughts of faith, love and goodness.  By this process you can actually remake your life.

Negative Thoughts = Negative Actions = Negative Results

Positive Thoughts = Positive Actions = Positive Results

It all starts with thought and if your thoughts contain negative thinking, then it will always lead to negative actions and results.

Following are seven practical steps for changing your mental attitudes from negative to positive, for releasing creative new thoughts, and for shifting from error patterns to truth patterns.  Try them-keep on trying them. The will work.

1.) For the next twenty-four hours, deliberately speak hopefully about everything, about your job, about your health, about your future.  Go out your way to talk optimistically about everything.  This will be difficult, for possibly it is your habit to talk pessimistically.  From this negative habit you must restrain yourself even if it requires an act of will.

2.) After speaking hopefully for twenty-four hours, continue the practice for one week, then you can be permitted to be “realistic” for a day or two.  You will discover that what you meant by “realistic” a week ago was actually pessimistic, but what you now mean by “realistic” is something entirely different; it is the dawning of the positive outlook.  When most people say they are being “realistic” they delude themselves: they are simply being negative.

3.) You must feed your mind even as you feed your body, and to make your mind healthy you must feed it nourishing, wholesome thoughts.  Therefore, today start to shift your mind from negative to positive thinking.  Start at the beginning of the New Testament and underscore every sentence about faith.  Continue doing this until you have marked every such passage in the four books, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. Particularly not Mark 11, verses 22, 23, 24.  They will serve as samples of the verses you are to underscore and fix deeply in your consciousness.

4.) Then commit the underscored passages to memory.  Commit one each day until you can recite the entire list from memory.  This will take time, but remember you have consumed much more time becoming a negative thinker than this will require.  Effort and time will be needed to unlearn your negative pattern.

5.) Make a list of your friends to determine who is the most positive thinker among them and deliberately cultivate his society.  Do not abandon your negative friends, but get closer to those with a positive point of view for a while, until you have absorbed their spirit, then you can go back among your negative friends and give them your newly acquired thought pattern without taking on their negativism.

6.) Avoid argument, but whenever a negative attitude is expressed, counter with a positive and optimistic opinion.

7.) Pray a great deal and always let your prayer take the form of thanksgiving on the assumption that God is giving you great and wonderful things; for if you think He is, He surely is.  God will not give you any greater blessing than you can believe in.  He wants to give you great things, but even He cannot make you take anything greater than you are equipped by faith to receive “According to your faith (that is, in proportion to)  be it unto you” (Matthew 9:29)/

The secret of a better and more successful life is to cast out those old, dead, unhealthy thoughts. Substitute them new, vital, dynamic faith thoughts.  You can depend upon it – an inflow of new thought will remake you and your life.

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

How To Use Faith in Healing

How To Use Faith in Healing

(An excerpt from the book “The Power of Positive Thinking” by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale)

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Is RELIGIOUS FAITH a factor in healing?  There are various evidences that Faith really is a factor in healing of a person.  When Faith is properly understood and applied, it is a powerful factor in overcoming diseases and establishing good health.

In my personal experiences, I used prayer and Faith to be more calm, peaceful and trusting to God.  And when your body is at peace, away from worries, you tend to heal naturally.

In the book, “The Power of Positive Thinking”, Here are the eight (8) practical suggestions on how to use Faith in Healing.

1.) Follow the advice of a prominent medical school head who said, “In sickness, send for your minister even as you send for your doctor.” In other words, believe that spiritual forces as well as medical technique are important in healing.

 

2.) Pray for the doctor.  Realize that God uses trained human instrumentality to aid His healing powers.  As one doctor has put it, “We treat the patient and God heals him.” Pray, therefore, that the doctor may be an open channel of God’s healing grace.

 

3.) Whatever you do, do not become panicky or filled with fear, for if you do, you will send out negative thoughts and therefore destructive thoughts in the direction of your loved one when he requires positive and healing thoughts to assist him.

 

4.) Remember that God does nothing except by law.  Also remember that our little materialistic laws are only fragmentary revelations of the great power flowing through the universe.  Spiritual law also governs illness.  God has arranged two remedies for all illness.  One is healing through natural laws applicable by science, and the other brings healing by spiritual law applicable through faith.

 

5.) Completely surrender your loved one into the hands of God.  By your faith you can place him in the flow of Divine power.  There s healing there, but in order for it to be effective the patient must be completely released to the operation of God’s will.  This is difficult to understand and equally difficult to perform, but it is a fact that if the great desire for the loved one to live is matched with an equally great willingness to relinquish him to God, healing powers are amazingly set in motion.

 

6.) It is also important that harmony prevail in the family, that is, a spiritual harmony.  Remember the emphasis in the Scripture, Matthew 18:19 “If two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.” Apparently disharmony and disease are akin.

 

7.) Form a picture in your mind of the loved one as being well. Visualize him in perfect health.  Picture him as radiant with the love and goodness of God.  The conscious mind may suggest sickness, even death, but nine-tenths of your mind is in the subconscious.  Let the picture of health sink into the subconscious and this powerful part of your mind will send forth radiant health energy.  What we believe in the subconscious we usually get.  Unless your faith controls the subconscious, you will never get any good thing, for the subconscious gives back only that which your real thought is.  If the real thought is negative, the results will also be negative.  If the real thought is positive, you will get positive and healing results.

 

8.) Be perfectly natural.  Ask God to heal your loved one.  That is what you want with all your heart, so ask Him please to do it, but we suggest that you say PLEASE just once.  Thereafter in your prayer, thank Him for His goodness.  This affirmative faith will help to release deep spiritual power and also joy through reassurance of God’s loving care.  This joy will sustain you, and remember that joy itself possesses healing power.

Hi, I’m Ralf Roger Tagao, a CPA & Real Estate Broker. My passion is reading books about business, success, leadership and all other motivational books that help me develop myself more. I love to share my ideas, knowledge and learnings to other people that I think will benefit them.

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